Do you struggle with showing empathy to your spouse?  Do you understand her needs? Do you understand her pain?  Can you empathize with her pain, or do you only sympathize? Do you know the difference between the two?  Come learn these skills so that you can show up in a new way for your wife. She will notice the difference.

Carol Juergensen Sheets and Allan J. Katz have created a workbook/road map for rebuilding relationships damaged by sexual addiction and other forms of infidelity.  With a focus on empathy – understanding what the betrayed partner is feeling; the exercises in this guidebook will help sex addicts rebuild lost trust and intimacy.  This is a recipe for healing a broken relationship.

In this twelve-week workshop, we will go through the HELP.HER.HEAL workbook a chapter each week.  There are eleven chapters, and the last week is the conclusion and wrap-up.

The chapter will be presented each week and the client works that chapter in the workbook during that week and reads the next chapter for the next session.

Zoom sessions are Wednesday, 7:00 - 8:30 pm Central time (Houston time).

A new 12-week session will start in March, 2024.

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To learn more or sign up, contact or call 855-602-2554.


The cost to participate is either $70 per session or a reduced rate of $800 for the full 12-week study.

Participants must pay for the full course, even if they drop out.

Paul Maner

The Facilitator

Paul Maner is a recovery coach with nearly two decades of experience in Twelve Step recovery. If you'd like to contact Paul for more information about the group, email him directly at

Study Overview

Week 1 – Chapter One - Your Addiction
Week 2 – Chapter Two - Your Feelings
Week 3 – Chapter Three -  Her Needs
Week 4 – Chapter Four - Triggers
Week 5 – Chapter Five - Empathy, The Building Block of Trust
Week 6 – Chapter Six - Communication
Week 7 – Chapter Seven - Conflict
Week 8 – Chapter Eight - Techniques That Keep You Strong While You Help Her Heal
Week 9 – Chapter Nine - Ways to Develop Intimacy
Week 10 – Chapter Ten - Processes that Must Occur Before Early Recovery Couple's Work
Week 11 – Chapter Eleven - Rituals that Promote Connection, Trust, and Restoration of the Relationship
Week 12 – Chapter Twelve - Conclusion and Wrap-Up

To learn more or sign up, contact or call 855-602-2554.

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Sessions are available in person and online for individuals and couples.

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